Larry Gehrke was born and raised in North Central Wisconsin as a Missouri Synod Lutheran. After brief periods in the Army and beginning college, he moved to Chicago in 1972 and finished his Bachelor’s degree through night classes at DePaul University. Larry started working in Chicago as a billing clerk and a correspondence secretary. With time on his hands, he and a few friends worked to form Gay Horizons as a Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender social services organization. That organization is now two: the Howard Brown Memorial Clinic and the Center on Halsted. Larry began working at CNA Insurance in 1976, where he spent the remainder of his work life, mostly in data management, until retiring June 2017. Larry was and still is a member of the Insurance Data Management Association. He served on its Education Committee for nine years and on its Board of Directors for five years. Post-retirement, Larry is still editing their new courses and creating the examination questions for those courses until the new curriculum is completed, which should be in 2020. Larry and his partner, Roger, met and moved in together in 1978. They were married in 2014, when it became legal in Illinois. In 1986, they bought a house in the Ravenswood Gardens neighborhood and, in 1987, Larry transferred his membership to Luther Memorial, participating as a choir member and as an assisting minister from that time. Larry previously served on the LMC Council from 1996 to 2002.
Emily Moen became a member of LMC in early 2016 after attending for a year with her fiancée, Jesse Lava. At LMC, Emily sings in the Chancel Choir and recently served on the Call Committee. Emily’s favorite part of LMC is the opportunity to build relationships with people from a wide variety of ages who are united by their desire to follow Jesus’ example of how to live with and care for others. She works as the Marketing & Public Relations Director at Thresholds, a large mental health services agency. She grew up in a tiny town in Northern Wisconsin, and has lived in Chicago for more than 10 years. Emily and Jesse live in North Center.
Audrey Downes is a lifelong member of Luther Memorial Church. She is currently an Assisting Minister, Healing Minister and Eucharistic Minister, a member of the Hand Bell Choir and WELCA and serves on the Investment Team. Audrey is also involved in the Drama Ministry program and helps with the Front Garden. She previously served many terms on the Church Council and was a Sunday School teacher. Audrey looks forward to serving again, engaging with our members and welcoming a new pastor to LMC.
Note: Audrey was elected as part of a slate of three at the October Congregational Meeting. She will serve on LMC’s Council for a two year term beginning in January. She will spend the next three months shadowing the current Council before her term begins.
Toietta and her husband, Michael, celebrated their 30th anniversary in August of this year. They have one child, Noah (18), who is a high school senior. Though she grew up in the Missionary Baptist church, Toietta converted to the ELCA when Noah was two, so that the Dixons could worship as a family. At other churches, she has been on the Council, headed the Worship & Music Committee, been a member of the Endowment Committee, taught the High School Sunday School class (along with Michael), and served as a Stephen Minister, as well as a variety of other volunteer services.
The Dixons began worshipping at Luther Memorial full time in September 2014, when they moved from northwest Connecticut to Chicago, and participated in the Great Conversation in the spring of 2015. At LMC, Toietta has facilitated a number of adult small groups, sings in the Chancel Choir, and is a Stephen Minister. She is eager to continue to serve in accordance with God’s calling.
Note: Toietta was elected as part of a slate of three at the October Congregational Meeting. She will serve on LMC’s Council for a two year term beginning in January. She will spend the next three months shadowing the current Council before her term begins.
Nicole VanderDoes grew up in a culturally Jewish, atheist family, and became a Christian in the spring of 1996 through the work of the Holy Spirit as she read the Bible. After having been involved in leadership at two United Methodist Churches in Ohio, Nicole moved to Chicago in March 2012 and began looking for a church where she could worship, build relationships, and serve. Nicole began attending LMC in December 2012, and continued attending because of LMC’s contemporary worship, strong Biblical foundation, diverse congregation, consistent member attendance—and, most importantly, because she saw great potential at LMC.
Since joining LMC, Nicole has facilitated small groups including the ongoing group that meets on Tuesday nights, helped lead the Spiritual Life Team for the Grace Overflowing capital campaign, oversaw the creation of two devotional booklets written by the congregation, performed in Embers, is working to help coordinate adult enrichment activities, and serves as an assisting minister. As a member of Council, Nicole will do her best to seek God’s wisdom and guidance, listen to others with respect and an open mind, and remember that all things must be done in love and for God’s glory. She will fail; she will often think she knows the best way, will struggle with delegation, and will sometimes become frustrated with inefficiency. But she will also engage in regular self-reflection and prayer to curtail the impact of those weaknesses on her ability to serve God and the people of LMC.
Nicole is an attorney who works to improve the American judicial system, is a Cleveland Indians, Ohio State basketball and football, and Blackhawks fan, and thinks everyone should love birthdays.
Note: Nicole was elected as part of a slate of three at the October Congregational Meeting. She will serve on LMC’s Council for a two year term beginning in January. She will spend the next three months shadowing the current Council before her term begins.
I was raised Catholic. As a child I attended mass every Sunday and went to CCD — the Catholic version of Sunday School — on Saturday mornings. I even served a three year stint as an alter boy.
When I went away to college, I stopped attending church on a regular basis. And, over time, became more distant and disillusioned with Catholicism. For the next 25 years or so, organized religion wasn’t a part of my life. That’s not to say that I lost my faith, I just didn’t see the need for attending church.
Fast forward to 2009, when my wife Tracy was pregnant with our daughter. We felt very lucky and prepared for her arrival. It was an exciting time! We lived in Lincoln Square, a relatively safe neighborhood with a good school across the street and a lot of parks nearby. It seemed like a perfect place to raise a child.
Yet there was one thing missing … we were both raised in a spiritual community, and we wanted the same for our daughter. For years, we lived just a few doors down the street from Luther Memorial Church. One Sunday, we decided to take a leap of faith of sorts, and stopped in to check out the 9:00am service. We were immediately impressed with Pastor Tim and the welcoming and inclusive nature of the community of parishioners. It felt like home. Thus we began our journey with LMC. We started attending regularly and eventually became members. Our daughter baptized on Holy Saturday in 2011.
Over the years as members of LMC, Tracy and I volunteered in the nursery and currently host Happier Hour. Most recently, I’ve been involved with the capital campaign and serve as a member of the communications committee.
My story is typical of many others. I was born into a Lutheran family, specifically the Missouri Synod, and did not question that aspect of it for many years. It was after my time in college and moving away from Oklahoma to Washington, DC, that my identity and my spiritual journey veered off course. However, these last few years have explained why that happened: having a community.
When Heidi and I started looking for a church to call home, we branched out of our comfort zones: LCMS for me and the Catholic Church for her. We found Luther Memorial and almost immediately recognized how unique this place was in the city. We really felt welcome here and challenged. Challenged in a way to make us think harder about our faith lives and how we were using it to help the world around us.
Today, Heidi has been working to build and grow the Wellness Initiative, providing alternative medical care to those who normally could not afford it, while I take time away from my career in political communications to give my time and talent in any way I can find it, especially when I am able to play my violin for the congregation during the Christmas and Easter holidays.
We have found the missing piece in our lives through Luther Memorial and could not be happier to be a part of this special and growing community.